Buy an indoor grill. Consider an electric grill like Saltons George Foreman model. Why? It needs only a blast of fat-free cooking spray (no oil) and it squeezes excess oil out of foods.
Dump all or nothing thinking. Backslides are inevitable: Its how you respond to them that matters. Katherine gained 2 lbs. on a trip to Rome with her husband, but she took it off when she got home.
Think small. Eat off salad plates, which contain more than enough space for a reasonable meal.